Here are 8 painful aspects of trading and what to do about them.
- The pain of losing money. (Trade smaller so it is much less painful, and just one outcome of the next 100.)
- The pain of being wrong about a trade you were sure about. (You lost simply because the market wasn’t conducive to your particular trade, trend followers lose money in choppy markets, swing traders lose money in trending markets, the market picks the particular winning trade not you.)
- Consecutive trading losses hurt. They make you doubt yourself, your method, and your system. (You need to remember your winning trades, your winning years, or your proof in back-testing, or paper trading of your method’s profitably.)
- The embarrassment of public losses. You told everyone who would listen about a great trade, and you were wrong. (Never be overconfident in any trade, but always be sure of your stop loss. Always be uncertain in your trade winning or losing, just follow your plan. )
- The pain of of admitting you were wrong. (Cut your loss and move on to the next trade, trade reality not your ego.)
- You are following a guru and come to realize he truly is a salesman and not a trader. (You stop following gurus and look to learn how to trade all by yourself.)
- You take a position that meets all your entry guidelines and then it hits your stop loss. (Follow your plan, exit the trade, and say “next”)
You start trading a system that did amazing in back-testing and promptly lose 10% of your account in a draw down. (You have to double check to see if you made any mistakes in your research, if the method is valid then stick with it so it can win in the long term, you may need to make slight adjustments in position sizing or stops to account for volatility that you may have missed.)