Losing trades can be the best ‘teacher’ you’ll ever have. However, just as with winning trades, it’s important to note that there will be a normal statistical variance of losing trades within any trading edge. So, you should not fall into the mental trap of thinking that EVERY losing trade you have was a major failure or that it means something is ‘wrong’ with your trading method or trading ability. Sometimes, perfectly good trade setups will fail, as that is just part of the game we call trading, so you just have to accept these trades and move on…assuming that you stuck to your trading strategy and the trade wasn’t taken out of greed, revenge or fear (over-trading).
The losing trades that you NEED to learn from and that you can learn a lot from, are those ‘stupid’ losing trades that you unfortunately did take out of greed, revenge or fear…and I know you know what I’m talking about here. After the trade is finished, you can record in your trading journal what you did wrong and why the trade was a failure; use these types of losing trades as a lesson and dissect what went wrong, you can then use this information to strengthen commitment to sticking to your trading strategy and plan.
The aim here, is to hopefully not make the same ‘stupid’ trading mistake twice, after all, your hard-earned money IS on the line every time you enter a trade. As you learn from ‘stupid trades’ it should help build your confidence because you will begin to see the power of remaining disciplined and consistent in trading, and you will start to see that you CAN trade successfully if you just stop making stupid trades.