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TRADING EMOTIONS

  
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The hardest thing to master as a trader once you understand Market Rhythm is not the market, it is YOU. Emotional trading will break you fast.

Trading is not hard, it is mastering your emotions that is. Trading will teach you more about your human short coming than visiting a psychiatrist. As a trader, you must learn the discipline of waiting for proper market set-ups. That is hard!

Your EMOTIONS are screaming for you to jump in or you will miss out. NOT TRUE!! If you miss one trade set-up, the market is generous and will give you another. Learn to trade in harmony with your trend and with proper signals.

The emotions that are deadly to your trading success.

REVENGE, we all know it and have done it. It happens when you are tricked by the market and decide to take another trade before looking at the big picture, then BAM you are on the wrong side of the trade again. Pissed off and refusing to move while your money is going further down the drain. Scared to let go for fear that you are going to get tricked again.

PANIC, that is when you lack the confidence to enter or ride a profitable trade. This happens when you have taken some hits and now you lack the confidence to trade profitably.

IMPATIENCE, this happens when you can’t wait for a proper trade set-up and jump on a price hiccup/retracement, often finding yourself on the wrong side of the trade.

ANGER, you know that feeling that comes over you when you have taken a hit or two and you want to kill your computer. (more…)

Negative Trading Behaviors

  
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*Over Trading in Size *Jumping the Gun *Hesitating *Skipping Trades *Being in A Hurry * Trading without Proper Preparation *Getting Stuck in A Losing Trade *Whipsawing *Breaking Your Trading Rules *Shooting From the Hip * Over Interpreting *Discounting *Trading A  Scenario without Reference to Price *Trading Heedlessly *Trading Wildly *Abandoning Your Trading Plan *Not having A Trading Plan *Switching Strategies Frequently *Not having  A Proven Strategy *Not Pulling the Trigger *Not Believing the Evidence the Market Provides *Blindly Believing   A story you tell yourself *Blindly Believing A story somebody else tells you *Becoming Impulsive.*Not Verifying A System Or Method Before you trade it.*Over Researching *Using Trading as a Spectator Sport *Jumping in before you think *Trading too Big *Grabbing Profits too soon.*Getting Careless *Being too Careful *Not adding to A Winning Trade.*Trading Heavier when losing *Forcing  trades *Getting Trigger Happy *Gulping Profits too soon *Adding to A losing Trade.*Overtrading  in terms of Frequency *Sticking with A Losing system *Sticking with A Broker that gives you bad Fills.*Not Making Trading A Priority*Worrying what others will think.*Trading with borrowed Money.*Trading with Money you need to live on*Holding Unrealistic Expectations.*Engaging in Negative and Destructive Self talk*Becoming Despondent about your trading results.*Wanting certainty before you trade.*Disregarding Probabilities*Fooling Yourself about your Trading.*Not keeping Proper Records*Not Acknowledging Mistakes.*Not Learning from Mistakes.*Repeating Mistakes*Engaging in Self Pity* Blaming Others *Getting Envious of other traders *Giving Up periodically *Resisting loss* Feeling shame for loss *Lying and Covering up results *Becoming pessimistic about the future of your trading * Being Unrealistic about your present trading &Tying self worth to trading * Bragging about Trading * Being Unduly Secretive  about trading * Using  trading to inflate your ego *Letting trading interfere with A full and Balanced life *Letting life interfere with A Full  and Balanced trading *Using trading to avoid living *Doing anything Unethical regarding your trading *Doing what Doesn’t work *Not continuing to do what does work *Getting Reckless & Getting Overcautious * Letting others put your down Re your trading * Waiting to Respect yourself untill you succeed with trading*Being Unorganized in your efforts * Trading for the sake of trading *Letting Distractions take your attention away from trading * Not Specializing *Not executing with precision *Forgetting to cancel stops after a trade is off*Fighting Yourself *Fighting the Market *Fighting Your Methods *Making careless errors & Personifying the Market *Projecting your own feelings on the market.

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Go over each of the Behaviors you have checked and scale them from 1 to 10 as to severity.Let 10 represent the most harmful to your trading.

Deadly Emotions

  
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REVENGE, we all know it and have done it. It happens when you are tricked by the market and decide to take another trade before looking at the big picture, then BAM you are on the wrong side of the trade again. Pissed off and refusing to move while your money is going further down the drain. Scared to let go for fear that you are going to get tricked again.

PANIC, that is when you lack the confidence to enter or ride a profitable trade. This happens when you have taken some hits and now you lack the confidence to trade profitably.

IMPATIENCE, this happens when you can’t wait for a proper trade set-up and jump on a price hiccup/retracement, often finding yourself on the wrong side of the trade.

ANGER, you know that feeling that comes over you when you have taken a hit or two and you want to kill your computer.

SELF PITY, when you come to the market hoping for crumbs and get none, and can’t see why THEY won’t let you have just a little bit.

DEPRESSION, something perhaps outside of the market has you at an extreme low point.

INDIFFERENCE, it happens when you have gotten hit so many times that you just don’t care any more because no matter what you can win any way.

All of these emotions work hard against you clouding your clarity and give other traders the advantage over you.

If you are experiencing any of these emotions when you enter your platform; abandon your trading until you have yourself under control and have the clarity of mind to trade. Not doing so greatly increases your chances of handing your money over to a trader who is more emotionally fit and controlled than you are.

We are all human and it happens to us all, but what weighs heavy in your mind will often weigh heavily in your pocket.

Come to your trading platform, well rested, focused and ready to trade. You may take an occasional hit so what it is a LESSON. We all get them and if we learn the lesson that the loss has taught us; it will make us much better traders.

DO NOT TRADE YOUR EMOTIONS!!!!!—-

Courage

  
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Concentrate on developing courage now, or risk a shortened investment career. Trading is not for the weak hearted. The markets are unpredictable and even the smartest analyst will make mistakes. Eventually everyone experiences a sequence of losing trades and you will not be exempt. You have a choice between self-pity and self-reflection. The Genius Trader has the courage to look at their mistakes and learn from them. The average trader perceives this as too painful, and simply curses their bad luck.

How do you become a more courageous trader? You must journal every single trade. Over the years, as I continue to interview accomplished investors, they all keep some form of trading journal. This provides such valuable information that I incorporate into other areas of my life. A detailed trading journal will be a big revelation into the success behind your best trades, and possible causes behind your losers. Armed with these facts, self-reflection becomes more productive.

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