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3 Types of Confidence

First, is what I call ‘false confidence’ That’s the person who talks big and poses like a big shot. This type of person often takes big risks in an effort to either impress others or to assuage their own discomfort, and the results are often erratic and often end terribly.

 Next, there is temporary confidence, which is conditional on recent performance. This is the person whose self-esteem is tied to their account equity or P&L.  When on a good run, they feel confident and take larger risks (often the prelude to giving it all back). And when performance is lousy they start grasping at anything, maybe exiting winners prematurely or taking on excessive risk to get their money back.

 Finally, we have true confidence. This is confidence that does not depend on recent results. It is based on a deep sense of inner trust. This is the person who has a history of doing the right thing, regardless of the outcome. Doing the right thing in the sense that they act in their own best interest and trust and understand that doing so over time has a positive impact on results.  The trust runs deep enough to provide resilience in the face of disappointment.  This is true self-confidence, the kind you want in trading and in life. 

8 Words For Traders

1. CONFIDENCE: absolutely essential in an environment that feeds on emotional    instability.
2. TRUST: if you cannot trust yourself who can you trust? Trust your rules, trust your edge, trust that you will do the right thing-no matter what!
3. FOCUS: you will never learn all there is to learn about the market.  Push your ego aside and focus on one market and one edge.
4.  ACCEPTANCE:  you have to accept what the market is willing to give or you will give the market what it wants to take.
5.  RESPONSIBILITY: you and you alone are responsible for the money you lose and the money you make.  Take the credit for both.  Either way you deserve it.
6.  PATIENCE:  The market is not the place to learn patience, it is the place to practice it.
7.  RULES:  the market has no rules and no one else will do it for you. Develop rules for entering AND exiting trades before trades are made.
8.  RESPECT:  you have to respect the market for what it is not for what you want it to be.  The market has a logic all its own.  You may not like it but you have to accept it.

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