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Are you losing more or failing more?

  
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Losing and failure are not the same thing. No matter the outcome of the trade, I am guaranteed two things: I am paying commission and assuming my head is not up my ass, I learned something about myself, the market, and the relationship between the two. Fortunately, losing is a part of trading. Yes I said fortunately, if everyone won the best could never be rewarded. Failing on the other hand is not necessary. What is the difference between failing and losing?

Having less capital because of something I know. FAILURE
Having less capital because of something I should know. LOSS that can turn to FAILURE
Have less capital because of something I do not know. LOSS

A Dozen Reflections on Life and Markets

  
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reflectiononlifeI’ve never seen a trader succeed whose explicit or implicit goal was to not lose. The trader who trades to not lose is like the person who lives to avoid death: both become
spiritual hypochondriacs.

No union was ever destroyed by a failure of romance. It is the loss of respect, not love, which ends a relationship.

Love, once present, never dies. It must be killed.

Sometimes we select markets–and trading styles–much as we choose romantic partners: by their ability to validate our deepest-held images of ourselves. Our choices generally succeed, for better or for worse.

Many a trader fears boredom more than loss, thereby experiencing the two in sequence. (more…)

Are you losing more or failing more?

  
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Losing and failure are not the same thing. No matter the outcome of the trade, I am guaranteed two things: I am paying commission and assuming my head is not up my ass, I learned something about myself, the market, and the relationship between the two. Fortunately, losing is a part of trading. Yes I said fortunately, if everyone won the best could never be rewarded. Failing on the other hand is not necessary. What is the difference between failing and losing?

 Having less capital because of something I know. FAILURE
Having less capital because of something I should know. LOSS that can turn to FAILURE
Have less capital because of something I do not know. LOSS

Are you losing more or failing more? 

RELAX

  
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If you are ‘in pain’ regarding trading, what is driving you is some other desire not directly connected to trading. You are trying to fix another area of your life that you are unsatisfied with (your job, your relationship, a debt, etc) – and you have projected this onto trading as the solution to your problems. You have to just let this go, stop doing it. If you do this, you are dead as disco. Give yourself a massive time window, the same as it takes to get a PHd.

Successful Traders Must Have Discipline

  
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Discipline is paramount for success over the LONG term. Every trader has a limited amount of capital (money) available to trade. The trader without discipline will make trades, be quick take the profit when he is right, and call his trade an investment when he is wrong. 

This action of cutting winners and letting losers run will almost certainly eventually lead to trading capital being wiped out. The natural tendency in humans is to take profits.  Learning to cut losing positions and let winners run is a skill that must be developed. 

 Have you ever caught yourself saying any of the following statements to justify inaction on cutting a losing position?

  •  I am holding on to this trade and hoping it recovers 
  • If I didn’t own it already I would be buying it here
  • I just want to get back to break even and then I will get out
  • The market is wrong

Everyone has said these things at some point in their trading lives, but let me tell you, any time your position requires HOPE it is likely HOPELESS!

If you say I would buy it here and you don’t want to buy more – you may be better off selling what you have!

The market doesn’t know or care what price you bought a position. The market price of a stock is the value of that stock right here, right now!  Even though the market presents opportunities, market pricing is not WRONG. 

While I am not giving buy sell or hold advice, I would strongly recommend that when you find yourself staring at a losing position consider selling it! If you  close it out completely,  you can really make an honest determination when you ask yourself, “Do I REALLY want to own it here?” 

Too often I see traders let their existing positions do the talking for them. Don’t fall into that trap!

Never Revenge On The Market

  
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There is a direct correlation between your ability to let the market tell you what it is likely to do next and the degree to which you have released yourself from the negative effects of any beliefs about losing, being wrong, and revenge on the markets. Not being aware of this relationship, most traders will continue to observe the market from a contaminated perspective

Never Revenge On The Market

  
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There is a direct correlation between your ability to let the market tell you what it is likely to do next and the degree to which you have released yourself from the negative effects of any beliefs about losing, being wrong, and revenge on the markets. Not being aware of this relationship, most traders will continue to observe the market from a contaminated perspective.—-The Disciplined Trader,Mark Douglas

Quotes -The Disciplined Trader,Mark Douglas

  
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Never Revenge On The Market

 There is a direct correlation between your ability to let the market tell you what it is likely to do next and the degree to which you have released yourself from the negative effects of any beliefs about losing, being wrong, and revenge on the markets. Not being aware of this relationship, most traders will continue to observe the market from a contaminated perspective

Harmony With Market

 
Your last trade obviously has nothing to do with the potential that exists in the market at any given moment. When you feel compelled to get back, it puts you in an adversary relationship with the market. The market becomes your opponent, it is you against it, instead of being in harmony with it

Top 10 list from billionaires as to be successful

  
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1. Figure out what you’re so passionate about that you’d be happy doing it for 10 years, even if you never made any money from it. That’s what you should be doing.
2. Always be true to yourself.
3. Figure out what your values are and live by them, in business and in life.
4. Rather than focus on work-life separation, focus on work-life integration.
5. Don’t network. Focus on building real relationships and friendships where the relationship itself is its own reward, instead of trying to get something out of the relationship to benefit your business or yourself.
6. Remember to maximize for happiness, not money or status.
7. Get ready for rejection.
8. Success unshared is failure. Give back — share your wealth.
10. Successful people do all the things unsuccessful people don’t want to do.

What would you add to the “Billionaire’s Secrets” List?

Trading Profits in relate to Time and Accuracy

  
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The size of profits of a trading system, is related to time and accuracy. They are inter-related and it is not possible to get the best out of all 3 factors in any trading system.

 

Before I elaborate further, I shall define what these 3 factors mean.

 

Size of profits – I am referring to the average amount of profits the system will earn per trade.

 

Time – The average length of time you held on to a trade.

 

Accuracy – The percentage that the system is correct and earns you a profit.

 

Big Profits = Long Time = Low Accuracy

 

For systems that aim for big profits, they must allow a greater range of fluctuations for the trade. By having a large trading range will in turn prevent you from getting stopped out so soon. Hence, you will be in a trade for a longer period of time. Besides having a larger profits, it will also serve you losses that are bigger, because your stop loss limit has to be further from your entry point. It is more difficult to grasp for the relationship with accuracy.

 

Small Profits = Short Time = High Accuracy (more…)

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