There are three motivations behind taking a trade: monetary reward, educational reward, and/or psychological reward. The first pays the bills, the second will pay the bills, and the last will prevent you from paying the bills.
Whenever I feel the pull of psychological reward, I have the voice saying “do you want to be a trader?” Letting go of the psychological need to take a trade or be right, is hard. Our brain does not know what money is. It listens in terms of chemical releases. Letting go of psychological reward is not easy. It is the most instantaneous form of reward.
The best way I know to give psychological power to money is to make a habit of seeing money as opportunity. Opportunity for financial freedom and opportunity to make another trade. The brain understands opportunity. This needs to be in balance as well.
If you are feeling the psychological pull, take a few seconds and answer the following.
Do I want to be a trader?
Did my last trade affect the thought process in an irrational way for this trade? (Need to be right, need to make my money back, I am invincible, etc.)
Can I get a better price or is this my best opportunity?
Am I seeing the whole picture?
As always, am I willing to accept the consequences of my action or inaction?