How do you build confidence? There are many ways but only one process: multiple small successes. I am very much an advocate for boring trading. What I mean by that is I trade the same edge over and over again without variation. By trading the same edge over and over again I know when to get in and when to get out. I know what to look for when a trade is working and I can safely add to my position. On the other hand, I know what to look for when the trade is not working and I can exit with a small loss. By following the rules EVERY TIME you can succeed, not in making money every time (impossible!), but by following the same plan every time. These small successes give you the confidence to trust yourself each and every time your edge presents itself. This is true in any new venture, whether it be golf, bowling, drawing, flying, etc. Each small success gives birth to greater confidence which in turn brings further successes. You can then replace a vicious circle of failure with a confident circle of success. It is so EASY to want the lottery ticket or the home run every time at bat but HARD to accept when the numbers do not add up or when all the preparation leads to nothing more than the hard earned single.
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| How do you build confidence? There are many ways but only one process: multiple small successes. I am very much an advocate for boring trading. What I mean by that is I trade the same edge over and over again without variation. By trading the same edge over and over again I know when to get in and when to get out. I know what to look for when a trade is working and I can safely add to my position. On the other hand, I know what to look for when the trade is not working and I can exit with a small loss. By following the rules EVERY TIME you can succeed, not in making money every time (impossible!), but by following the same plan every time. These small successes give you the confidence to trust yourself each and every time your edge presents itself. This is true in any new venture, whether it be golf, bowling, drawing, flying, etc. Each small success gives birth to greater confidence which in turn brings further successes. You can then replace a vicious circle of failure with a confident circle of success. It is so EASY to want the lottery ticket or the home run every time at bat but HARD to accept when the numbers do not add up or when all the preparation leads to nothing more than the hard earned single. |
Indecision and the Win
Watching cricket (or the same could be applied to baseball for the Americans or football for the Europeans and Brits…and South Americans and…) I have often considered how structured and polished the performances are– clean batting, clean bowling and clean fielding.
When is a risk taker going to be coach? When will some one bring the advantages of risk and a polished team into play?
Indecision must bring opportunities.
Why couldn’t a fielding team (that’s getting flogged or maybe not flogged) start to miss EASY field returns, but have a back up plan–thereby allowing for the batting team to be lured into a second run and capitalise on the often poor communication between batters looking for a run out.
Many other ideas and ways of creating opportunities to take advantage of a situation could be put in play. It seems most areas are not being explored.
Markets certainly don’t have those problems with a muliple of false break outs catching everyone on the hop, and whether we like it or not, keeping the game interesting.
Success is the mother of confidence
How do you build confidence? There are many ways but only one process: multiple small successes. I am very much an advocate for boring trading. What I mean by that is I trade the same edge over and over again without variation. By trading the same edge over and over again I know when to get in and when to get out. I know what to look for when a trade is working and I can safely add to my position. On the other hand, I know what to look for when the trade is not working and I can exit with a small loss. By following the rules EVERY TIME you can succeed, not in making money every time (impossible!), but by following the same plan every time. These small successes give you the confidence to trust yourself each and every time your edge presents itself. This is true in any new venture, whether it be golf, bowling, drawing, flying, etc. Each small success gives birth to greater confidence which in turn brings further successes. You can then replace a vicious circle of failure with a confident circle of success. It is so EASY to want the lottery ticket or the home run every time at bat but HARD to accept when the numbers do not add up or when all the preparation leads to nothing more than the hard earned single.