“When you see a position that is going against you and the market is dropping, and you are losing money on a trade, but your stop loss hasn’t been hit yet, how do you stay with the position? What is your secret? Do you pullback and look at the big picture or do you simple assume its all noise as long as it doesn’t hit that lower low? This is my biggest problem with tracking your trades and most of the time you are right in holding on.” … Because we thought our answer to his question may be beneficial to other traders as well, we wanted to share our reply to his e-mail, which was… “The key point you stated is ‘but your stop loss hasn’t been hit yet.’ When we put on a trade, it’s like entering into a contract, so we try to stay the course and simply follow the plan. Over the years, we’ve found it’s best to stick with our original analysis because we usually plan a trade at night, or in the pre-market, without the stress of live trading. During the trading session, in the heat of the moment, there is so much pressure that we have to fight the voice in our heads telling us to sell the position when everything around is crumbling. It basically comes down to planning the trade and trading the plan…easier said than done, right? Sometimes, if you have a feeling things are going bad, and you’re an active trader, you can maybe sell 1/4 or 1/3 of the position to ease your mind. However, you must have the discipline to get back in once the coast is clear. Try to lay out a plan, write it on paper, and stick to it. The one thing every trader must accept, in order to be successful, is a loss. You must be fully prepared to lose what you’re risking. Once you accept losses as part of the trading game, the pressure to be right is not so intense. By the way, we at ASR are no different; we fight the same urges to sell that most traders do. It’s a constant battle, that’s for sure!” |
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rssUniversal Laws of Success
(1) Law of LOVE – It says in essence – “LOVE ALL PEOPLE AS YOURSELF”. All other rules are subordinate to this one Law – they must NOT conflict with it. It’s biblical. It applies to everything we do – as individuals – families – business teams – organizations – countries. It is Global in its reach.
(2) Law of CAUSE & EFFECT – This is an orderly universe. There are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason. For every effect there’s a cause or a set of causes.
(3) Law of MIND – Thoughts objectify themselves. We ‘become’ what we ‘think about’.
(4) Law of MENTAL EQUIVALENCY – To achieve success in any area, we must have a ‘clear image’ of that success in our mind a mental picture of our idea of success – a vision.
(5) Law of CORRESPONDENCE – Our outer life will mirror our ‘inner’ life. There is a ‘direct correspondence’ between our experiences and our thoughts and attitudes.
(6) Law of BELIEF – Whatever we believe – deeply – becomes our reality (including our belief that we “deserve” Success).
(7) Law of VALUES – What we truly value and believe in is reflected in our ‘actions’, even though our ‘words’ may say otherwise.
(8) Law of MOTIVATION – Everything we do is triggered by our inner desires, urges and instincts – many are subconscious.
(9) Law of SUBCONSCIOUS ACTIVITY – Our subconscious mind ‘alerts us to things around us’ – consistent with our dominant desires and concerns.
(10) Law of EXPECTATIONS – What we ‘expect with confidence’ tends to materialize.
(11) Law of CONCENTRATION – Whatever we concentrate on – and think about repeatedly – becomes more a part of our inner life.
(12) Law of HABIT – Virtually all that we do is automatic – the result of habit. Habits that move us ‘away’ from our goals must be ‘changed’. (more…)
Emotional Intelligence v Intellectual Intelligence in trading.
What is more important for success as a trader – A high level of Intellectual Intelligence, or a high level of Emotional Intelligence?
Warren Buffett once said; “Success in investing doesn’t correlate with I.Q. once you’re above the level of 25. Once you have ordinary intelligence, what you need is the temperament to control the urges that get other people into trouble in investing“.
Very briefly emotional intelligence can be defined as an ability, skill or a self-perceived ability to identify, assess, and control the emotions of oneself, of others, and of groups.
Broadly speaking intellectual intelligence can be defined an academic or cognitive intelligence. Resing and Drenth (2007) use the following definition: “The whole of cognitive or intellectual abilities required to obtain knowledge, and to use that knowledge in a good way to solve problems that have a well described goal and structure.”
Universal Laws of Success
(1) Law of LOVE – It says in essence – “LOVE ALL PEOPLE AS YOURSELF”. All other rules are subordinate to this one Law – they must NOT conflict with it. It’s biblical. It applies to everything we do – as individuals – families – business teams – organizations – countries. It is Global in its reach.
(2) Law of CAUSE & EFFECT – This is an orderly universe. There are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason. For every effect there’s a cause or a set of causes.
(3) Law of MIND – Thoughts objectify themselves. We ‘become’ what we ‘think about’.
(4) Law of MENTAL EQUIVALENCY – To achieve success in any area, we must have a ‘clear image’ of that success in our mind a mental picture of our idea of success – a vision. (more…)