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The Same Winning Principles

  
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In life, as in trading, the right mindset is crucial for success. You must be confident in your decisions because they are based on cause and effect, not on emotions or opinion. Negative people who are unsure of themselves are not successful in any field. You need faith in yourself and your methods to be able to persevere and not give up before reaching success.

• You can risk too much and lose it all in your business, life, marriage, friendships or family. You have to measure the potential cost of every action. One affair can cost you your marriage, just like one big trade with too much risk can cost you all your capital.

• In business there are certain methods which bring in customers and turn a profit, and others which cause a business to turn away customers and lose money. Trading is similar: methods which turn a consistent and long-term profit are essential for success.

• Having unrealistic expectations in a marriage, job, or business will lead to unhappiness and failure just like it will in trading. You have to set realistic expectations so
you do not get discouraged easily and quit in any of these areas. You have to be satisfied that the results are worth your effort over the long term. You need to understand what to expect before you begin a marriage, a job, a business, or trading. (more…)

7 Unfortunate Habits of Unhappy People

  
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1.  Playing it too safe.

Don’t play it so safe that you put yourself in situations where none of your potential options satisfy your calling.  Dream your dream, but also realize that you are more than just the dreamer, you are the point of origin for your dream’s reality.

Your dream is your creative vision for your future life.  You must break out of your current comfort zone and become comfortable with the unfamiliar.  Start smashing through those emotional barriers.  Move forward.  Life doesn’t magically give you what you want in your mind; it gives you what you insist upon with your actions.  Read The Power of Habit.

2.  Continuous self doubt.

You will inevitably become who you believe yourself to be.

If you spend enough time saying, “I’m not smart enough, thin enough and rich enough,” it’s likely that you will someday be right.  On the contrary, if you havethe belief that you are smart enough, thin enough and rich enough now to take the next positive step forward, over time you will likely acquire the capacity to be these very things at your desired level of expectation. (more…)

Trading Principles

  
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• In life, as in trading, the right mindset is crucial for success. You must be confident in your decisions because they are based on cause and effect, not on emotions or opinion. Negative people who are unsure of themselves are not successful in any field. You need faith in yourself and your methods to be able to persevere and not give up before reaching success.

• You can risk too much and lose it all in your business, life, marriage, friendships or family. You have to measure the potential cost of every action. One affair can cost you your marriage, just like one big trade with too much risk can cost you all your capital.

• In business there are certain methods which bring in customers and turn a profit, and others which cause a business to turn away customers and lose money. Trading is similar: methods which turn a consistent and long-term profit are essential for success.

• Having unrealistic expectations in a marriage, job, or business will lead to unhappiness and failure just like it will in trading. You have to set realistic expectations so
you do not get discouraged easily and quit in any of these areas. You have to be satisfied that the results are worth your effort over the long term. You need to understand what to expect before you begin a marriage, a job, a business, or trading.

• Those who succeed in all areas of life are the ones who can manage stress the best. The best way to manage stress is to increase what you can handle step by step so that you grow into new circumstances. Another way to manage stress is to avoid actions which get you into situations you are uncomfortable with.

Negative Trading Behaviors

  
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*Over Trading in Size *Jumping the Gun *Hesitating *Skipping Trades *Being in A Hurry * Trading without Proper Preparation *Getting Stuck in A Losing Trade *Whipsawing *Breaking Your Trading Rules *Shooting From the Hip * Over Interpreting *Discounting *Trading A  Scenario without Reference to Price *Trading Heedlessly *Trading Wildly *Abandoning Your Trading Plan *Not having A Trading Plan *Switching Strategies Frequently *Not having  A Proven Strategy *Not Pulling the Trigger *Not Believing the Evidence the Market Provides *Blindly Believing   A story you tell yourself *Blindly Believing A story somebody else tells you *Becoming Impulsive.*Not Verifying A System Or Method Before you trade it.*Over Researching *Using Trading as a Spectator Sport *Jumping in before you think *Trading too Big *Grabbing Profits too soon.*Getting Careless *Being too Careful *Not adding to A Winning Trade.*Trading Heavier when losing *Forcing  trades *Getting Trigger Happy *Gulping Profits too soon *Adding to A losing Trade.*Overtrading  in terms of Frequency *Sticking with A Losing system *Sticking with A Broker that gives you bad Fills.*Not Making Trading A Priority*Worrying what others will think.*Trading with borrowed Money.*Trading with Money you need to live on*Holding Unrealistic Expectations.*Engaging in Negative and Destructive Self talk*Becoming Despondent about your trading results.*Wanting certainty before you trade.*Disregarding Probabilities*Fooling Yourself about your Trading.*Not keeping Proper Records*Not Acknowledging Mistakes.*Not Learning from Mistakes.*Repeating Mistakes*Engaging in Self Pity* Blaming Others *Getting Envious of other traders *Giving Up periodically *Resisting loss* Feeling shame for loss *Lying and Covering up results *Becoming pessimistic about the future of your trading * Being Unrealistic about your present trading &Tying self worth to trading * Bragging about Trading * Being Unduly Secretive  about trading * Using  trading to inflate your ego *Letting trading interfere with A full and Balanced life *Letting life interfere with A Full  and Balanced trading *Using trading to avoid living *Doing anything Unethical regarding your trading *Doing what Doesn’t work *Not continuing to do what does work *Getting Reckless & Getting Overcautious * Letting others put your down Re your trading * Waiting to Respect yourself untill you succeed with trading*Being Unorganized in your efforts * Trading for the sake of trading *Letting Distractions take your attention away from trading * Not Specializing *Not executing with precision *Forgetting to cancel stops after a trade is off*Fighting Yourself *Fighting the Market *Fighting Your Methods *Making careless errors & Personifying the Market *Projecting your own feelings on the market.

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Go over each of the Behaviors you have checked and scale them from 1 to 10 as to severity.Let 10 represent the most harmful to your trading.

Psychological problems

  
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There are two parts to fixing any psychological problems:
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1. Recognizing that it exists
2. Accepting it so you can move on
In trading, this is where it’s so crucial to take responsibility for your own actions because it induces change and you can start making improvements. If you don’t recognize and accept a problem, then you won’t get anywhere!
What are some of these issues  ? Here are a few along with their causes and/or effects:
1. Anger over a losing trade – Traders usually feel as if they are victims of the market. This is usually because they either 1) care too much about the trade and/or 2) have unrealistic expectations. They seek approval from the markets, something the markets cannot provide.
2. Trading too much – Traders that do this have some personal need to “conquer” the market. The sole motivation here is greed and about “getting even” with the market. It is impossible to get “even” with the market.
3. Trading the wrong size – Traders ignore or don’t recognize the risk of each trade or do not understand money management. There is no personal responsibility here.
4. PMSing after the day is over – Traders are on a wild emotional roller coaster that is fueled by a plethora of emotions ranging throughout the spectrum. Focus is taken off of the process and is placed too heavily on the money. These people are very irritable akin to the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome. (more…)

10 More Trading Rules

  
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1) Trading rules don’t normally fall out of the sky.Number-10

2) The emotional work is normally not undertaken by developing traders. After all this game should be easy.

3) Not enough time has been spent finding a system that is a fit to the personality of the trader.

4) You don’t really feel congruence with the approach.

5) As soon as you have a few losers you tinker with the approach or move to a new approach.

6) You are under-capitalized or for some other reason you mess with the approach then don’t hold yourself accountable for the fiddling and blame the approach.

7) You have unrealistic expectations as to the performance of the system in terms of win rate.

8) You are ‘bricking it’ about entering drawdown territory.  

9) Your system actually isn’t complete.  You haven’t got all of the following bases covered: market selection, position sizing, entries, stops, exits, tactics.

10) You learned a system or got a system from a marketeer or pseudo trader and it’s actually just crap.

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