The trade falls apart. The stop loss gets hit, but your dealer doesn’t get you out of the trade. Or the spreads widen. Or you forget you have an order in the system and it triggers, and you’re on vacation, and you’re just having a great time until you are on the White Knuckler roller coaster ride and you think to yourself:

Trading is much like holding a fire in your hand.

At the same time, it’s beautiful and mesmerizing (for some of you at least). It hurts, too. When you have a bad trade, you are holding fire in your hands, so to speak. What are you going to do with it? Take a picture of it? Hide from it? Close your hand on it? Blow on it? Pour gasoline on top of it?

We don’t always react in the best of ways to the unexpected trade. Especially if the trade is a loser, or a mistake, we are likely to try to hide from it first. We flee from the scene of the crime.

If things don’t go your way in trading, tackle the situation. Get on top of it. Figure something out, and do it with friends, and do it sooner rather than later. You’ll be happy you put out the fire in your hand.