1. No one has it all figured out 2. Being nice is overrated Be kind, be fair, not “nice” 3. To love is to be vulnerable, let your guard down 4.Good or bad, you can learn from everyone 5. Embrace all of your emotions. Don’t ignore them 6. Traveling alone is better than with bad company 7. Unlearning is just as important as learning 8. No one prepares you to watch your parents grow old 9. Own up to your mistakes 10. Maturity is accepting you won’t get answers to the things that hurt you most. Heal anyway 11. One of the most important life decisions you’ll ever make in this life is who you have children with. Choose wisely 12. Women friends are cool. Don’t try to sleep with them 13. You don’t have to learn everything the hard way 14. One day you’ll need to be forgiven so learn to forgive 15. Instead of buying your children what you didn’t have, teach them what you didn’t learn 16. Never let your inner child die 17. If someone doesn’t treat you as good as a chick fil a employee, they don’t deserve to be in your life 18. No one reads minds. Speak on how you feel 19. Never feel bad about promoting yourself 20. If you value your time, say no to anything you don’t want to do 21. Spending time alone is one of the best things you can do 22. Celebrate your accomplishments 23. If you care too much about what others think, you’re effectively their slave 24. Be so busy improving your life that you don’t have time to criticize others 25. Everyone you love will eventually die. Spend time with your loved ones 26. Listen to understand, not to respond 27. Hang out with people from different races, ethnicities and social economic statuses 28. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first