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Ten Secrets

  • THE FIRST SECRET
    The Power of Thought.Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize him or her when you meet him or her.
  • THE SECOND SECRET
    The Power of Respect.You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself: “What do I respect about myself?” To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself: “What do I respect about them?”
  • THE THIRD SECRET
    The Power of Giving.If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
  • THE FOURTH SECRET
    The Power of Friendship.To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other’s eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship. (more…)

Top Ten Trading Affirmations

I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY THOUGHT, FEELING AND ACTION  
 
I ACCEPT THE PRESENT AS REALITY AND TAKE ACTION ACCORDINGLY
 
I TAKE WHAT THE MARKETS GIVE ME AND AM GRATEFUL FOR THESE GIFTS
 
I AM WILLING TO MAKE MISTAKES, LEARN FROM THEM, FORGIVE MYSELF AND MOVE ON
 
I AM FLEXIBLE AND ADAPTABLE
 
I CAN EASILY AND TRUTHFULLY SAY “I DON’T KNOW”
 
I TRUST MYSELF TO DO WHAT IS IN MY BEST INTEREST
 
THE MARKET IS MY BEST TEACHER
 
I LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERY DAY
 
I AM BECOMING A BETTER TRADER

BETTER TRADING

“Any thought put into your mind and nourished regularly, will produce results in your life.” John Kehoe

An affirmation is a statement made in the present about the future as if it had already occurred in the past. Let me say it more simply. An affirmation is a simple statement about what you want to become true in your life. You state it in the present tense as if it were already true. You repeat your hopes and dreams. You declare the opposite of your fears. For example, the fear that you could lose all your money becomes: “I grow my capital through consistently applying my winning methods.”

Be careful to word the affirmation in the present tense. Statements made in the future stay in the future. “Next month I’ll turn my trading around.” stays out there in the future. Now is when you need to turn the trading around.

Affirmations can be repeated to yourself silently or aloud. You can incant them with feeling or whisper them to yourself. You can record them and play them, or write them and read them. A good time to assert them is just as you’re falling asleep or waking up, or any other time of the day. You can say them while you drive or wait in a bank line or as you watch the market or manage a trade.

And here is a little miracle. You don’t have to believe the truth of the affirmation in order for it to have an effect. Of course, it’s better if you imagine it to be true or becoming true.

Sometimes it’s more believable if it’s a process statement. “I am slender” can change to “I am becoming slender.” “I am consistently profitable” changes to “I am becoming more consistently profitable.” There are times when the process is more credible than the reality.

You can also turn the statement into a question. “In what ways am I becoming a better trader?” “How am I becoming a more professional trader each year?” The mind accepts the truth of the question and searches for evidence. (more…)